The Secret Behind Gratitude

What’s the secret behind gratitude?

1. Ask open-ended questions.
2. When you think you know the answer, go deeper.

Next time you're getting to know someone new, rather than focusing on your own story, ask questions that allow you to understand their world more deeply.

You can use simple techniques, like mirroring their word choices, or naming the emotions they seem to feel when they tell that story. This tells the story teller that you are actively listening and engaged with them. It lets them know that you are genuinely curious about them as an individual.

When we practice being curious about others, we empower people to share their stories, learn through their perspectives, and widen our worldview. With greater empathy for others, we also deepen our gratitude.

We can then give gratitude in a variety of ways because we understand that others like to receive blessings in different ways.